Today's Horoscope Said it Had to Happen.

Scorpio (Oct. 24 — Nov. 22)
The last thing you need now is an exercise in futility. If something just isn't possible, it isn't possible. Accept as much and don't worry. For you the outlook has never held forth more promise. A recent struggle simply had to happen.

I disagree.

There is never an excuse for violence. I just can't seem to get that through. It's OK to be mad. It's OK to be emotional. It's even OK to argue. But it's how you get mad; how you show your emotions and how you argue that is important. It's easy to get along when things are going well. It's how you treat each other when things aren't going so well that counts.

It will make or break a relationship.

In this case, it's breaking the relationship and you don't see it.

• You intentionally bully and scare someone you claim to love ....
• You use your vehicle as a weapon, endangering not only the one you claim to love and yourself - but also others; strangers who are not involved and absolutely should not pay the price for your rage ....
• You are constantly spouting off negative and derogatory comments and remarks to the one you claim to love ....
• You use fear, shame and guilt to overpower, and completely turn a situation around trying to justify your actions; saying you reacted the way you did because of the one you claim to love ....
• Constantly threaten the one you claim to love; threaten to hurt, threaten to shame, threaten violence - even threaten to bring harm to people and things that are important to the one you claim to love ....

It's all about control. And right now, you've got it all contrary to what you believe.

If this is how you love someone, you really should be ashamed.